I've been working on our family tree, have been editing names, dates and birth/death places. It's a mission of mine to connect members of families when I can; not only our family. I've connected many people to their deceased loved ones here as they've come up when searching someone in our tree. It's been very rewarding to see them all together on one memorial.

My biggest pet peeve is find a grave members that do not allow messages or emails. You don't make it easy for me or any one else to respond to you. I don't know what drove you to remove the message option but I can't imagine even needing to do that even after being harassed myself. If you're not happy here, maybe take a break?