As a person, I try my best to be KIND to OTHERS b/c after all we are ALL searching for our past connections. I used genealogical research to relieve the pain I felt when my husband died suddenly from an aorta aneurysm. Everyday, I would search for family members connected to my parents. Then one day, I received a vicious and scathing e-mail from someone apparently connected to my Father's oldest sister who had run away from home when this sister was 16 years old in the middle of the 1930s depression. I asked myself, " Who the HELL are YOU?" My Father's Family believed that this sister had died and they never discussed it. I examined this person's FACEBOOK page. She seemed like a MENTAL CASE loving demonic satanic rites. EW! I distanced myself. This person had been the third claim to be my Father's sister since I started research in 2000 AD. So, now..... I leave no details of my Family. I still love researching but I just do not share with the internet people. I figure .....find it yourself.