I mostly use Find A grave for family. I find nothing further than third-grade grandparent an unreasonable request to manage especially if the person who manages that memorial is not the slightest bit related. I have done work on memorials having them transferred to me without me asking. If anyone who is a relative of such a memorial would like one of those memorials I am more than happy to give them to you. This is about remembrance not hoarding. The memorials are not a commodity or cache of nuts that you have to bury in the ground like a squirrel. This is supposed to be a social community where people talk and work with each other. I find most people never talk nor answer and have their emails blocked, which defeats the purpose and doesn't allow people to work with them. Recently, I asked if I could manage the memorial of a third great grandmother. That person is managing 20,000 memorials and yet won't allow me to manage my third great grandmother's profile. He wasn't even getting the information correct. When he finally did respond, after much prodding he said I didn't make enough memorials, therefore I did nothing to contribute and didn't deserve her memorial. I haven't made many memorials, but I've worked on many of them. Adding missing information and linking families together. I mark every veteran I find and link them to Fold3. If a veteran doesn't have a Fold3 profile I create one for them. I go about it as if I'm working on my own family to honor others families as I would like my own to be. If you are managing a memorial and are not a relative and someone from say three or four generations back asks to manage that memorial don't be selfish. You wouldn't want somebody to do that to you.