If you are a relative of any person whose memorial I have added, I would be happy to transfer that memorial to you. I have no need to manage any memorial. But there are a lot of unsavory folks on Find A Grave who use this site as some sort of morbid hobby. I don't want those losers and freaks getting their creepy jollies off of my loved one's death, so I have asked that some of those be transferred to me by the person who added their obituary to Find A Grave. I do try to add photos requested by loved ones and genealogists when I am near a cemetery and I will add a new memorial if I Find A Grave that is not on the site. That is the purpose of the site, it is not find an obituary. If I have added your loved one to FAG, please reach out so that I may transfer them to you.