I have always felt cemeteries and graveyards to be holy and sacred land. I enjoy many peaceful walks through them and admire their beauty. Only recently have I decided to help enter more information on my own relatives graves and to connect parents-children-siblings. I have gone to take pictures of graves and also requested them. Still I can't always 'connect' everyone and after clarifying that a person was cremated and ashes spread, will I add a simple memorial for them. I feel this is the last 'act of kindness' I can bestow on those who have passed away.