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Mildred E. Tolsma

Birth: 1894
Death: 21 Oct 1913 (aged 18–19)
Burial: Elmlawn Cemetery

Tonawanda, Erie County, New York, USA Show Map GPS-Latitude: 42.9914486, Longitude: -78.8665347
Plot: Section Ridge, Lot 321, Grave 4
Memorial ID: 263024013 View Source

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Mildred Etha
Tolsma
Mar. 13, 1894
Oct. 21, 1913

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Barker Tolsma Jr

1865–1956
Louisa Holtz Tolsma

1868–1953

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Charles Harris Tolsma

1895–1966
Edward Caleb Tolsma

1900–1961
Blanche Edith Tolsma Dudley

1916–2010

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