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    Christopher Joseph Patrick “Pat” Abel VVeteran

    1941 – 2011 • Hermitage Memorial Gardens

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    Christopher Joseph Patrick “Pat” Abel

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      Birth
      24 Aug 1941
      Nashville, Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
      Death
      28 Dec 2011 (aged 70)
      Nashville, Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
      Burial
      Hermitage Memorial Gardens
      Old Hickory, Davidson County, Tennessee, USA Show Map GPS-Latitude: 36.2226018, Longitude: -86.6027348
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      The Cremation Garden, Lot 13C12, Space #1.
      Memorial ID
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      ***** Fallen Graver ******


      Graduate of Assumption School & Father Ryan. Served as US Marine. Survived by wife, children, 4 grandchildren & 2 great grandchildren; sisters, brother, & many nieces & nephews. Preceded by mother & father, Essie Leonia & Charles Elmer Abel; sisters, Essie, Anna, Gloria & Clare & brother, Charles. He touched many lives as he was a man that people came to in need. He was dearly loved & will certainly be missed. According to Pat's wife's obituary, she and Pat will be inurned together at Hermitage Memorial Gardens.



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      Graduate of Assumption School & Father Ryan. Served as US Marine. Survived by wife, children, 4 grandchildren & 2 great grandchildren; sisters, brother, & many nieces & nephews. Preceded by mother & father, Essie Leonia & Charles Elmer Abel; sisters, Essie, Anna, Gloria & Clare & brother, Charles. He touched many lives as he was a man that people came to in need. He was dearly loved & will certainly be missed. According to Pat's wife's obituary, she and Pat will be inurned together at Hermitage Memorial Gardens.



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      • Charles Elmer Abel Sr

        1882–1953

      • Leonia Essie Woods Abel

        1904–1989

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      • Shirley Loyce Bond Abel

        1935–2023

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      • Essie Marion Abel Bradford

        1929–1997

      • Charles Elmer "Sonny" Abel Jr

        1932–1991

      • Ann Elizabeth Abel Cox

        1935–1965

      • Clare Olga "Little Mama" Abel Harrison

        1937–2007

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      • Originally Created by: james pearce
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