I have been interested in headstones and cemeteries since a child. I find them and the people interesting and often wonder what their life was like. I've traveled to many states and different well known cemeteries and even to small ones out in pastures that time and family have forgotten.

I will transfer a memorial to a active member and if I can establish a connection to the loved one. Sorry but I take this seriously and not as a "collection" and have respect even if I might not know them to leave their memorial in good hands.

I find comfort when I'm here and are able to see my loved ones memorial and visit even though I am away. For me, loved ones death never get easier as time goes by and absolutely loathe when people would say that to me at funerals. It never gets easier, nor the grief. I've just gotten better of hiding the hurt