I lost my two son's one by someone's hand. He took one of the love of my life Lee.I have also lost my eldest son Stephen.To all who have. lost a child I feel your pain. I am now 77 years old, with three children on the earth plain.two in heaven. Grief is a really bad thing it breaks the family. My husband and I ,just could not stay together after what happens to Lee. Now my husband has also gone, and I now know how much we loved. each other.rest in piece Stan. For my other three children all I can say, is I love you all so much