I am a retired military officer (7 years active-duty Air Force, the rest in the Naval Air Reserve). After I retired, I had a career developing online training programs (mostly for airlines and the FAA). I became interested in Find-A-Grave when doing some family genealogy, and then going to my relatives' gravesites and seeing some of them in neglect. When I started taking photos for Find-A-Grave, I immediately started adding gardening/lawn tools to the trunk of my car. If someone asks for a photo of a loved one's headstone, they don't want to see it covered with grass and dirt. I believe if you are going to take a photo for someone, take one that you would take for yourself. Tom