Per current Find A Grave guidance, I don't generally add obituaries. That's another website's job. I don't add references to living/potentially living people, this is a safety/privacy issue that I'm glad Find A Grave respects.
I'm always glad to add original bios and any useful plot information.
Please just ask for memorial transfers, many of these memorials I manage were just "orphaned" (added by inactive users and later managed by Find A Grave) or ones I stumbled on.